Happy third birthday to our sweet little Poesy! We never imagined what a special puppy we picked out when we first adopted her, but now we can’t imagine our life without her!
I am grateful for a God who created such a beautifully diverse world and who loves each person in it enough to have taken on our brokenness to restore our relationship with Him.
“I can see it now
I can see the love in Your eyes
Laying yourself down
Raising up the broken to life”
//”Broken Vessels,” Hillsong Worship
Happy Anniversary to the man who has saturated my life with
laughter in abundance, inspiration to the max, and love with no bounds.
As stiff twin compasses are two;
Thy soul, the fixed foot, makes no show
To move, but doth, if the other do….
Thy firmness makes my circle just,
And makes me end where I begun.”
// John Donne
She devoured the words,
consumed their soothing elixir.
She caressed each page with her fingertips
as they stirred her longings and met her deepest, darkest fears.
She delighted in each small triumph
and mourned over losses that seemed only a lifetime away.
She invited them into herself
and bared her very soul.
And even though the story ended,
she carried them with her so that they became a part of her.
“All shadows whisper of the sun.”
Even the smallest decisions have a power that often goes unnoticed. In the past year, I’ve given a lot of thought to the decisions I make in my life – what I eat, what I wear, what I purchase, what I believe, what I say.
After much thought, I have established three priorities by which I want to live my life. Essentially, I want each decision I make to positively impact:
- the lives of others (at both the societal and individual levels),
- the environment (as well as the organisms within it), and
- myself (physically, spiritually, and emotionally).
It is my intention that by fulfilling these three goals, I will live in a way that pleases God and improves the world around me. As I have begun to apply these values in my decision-making process, I have realized that all of my values are interrelated and overlapping. For instance, the decisions that I make to support sustainability typically lead to healthier decisions for my body. The choices I make about buying ethical clothing, which essentially means purchasing less clothing overall, improves my life by simplifying it and drawing me away from consumerism.
I recently read this claim in an article: “…you do not have the power or the information to implement your values.” Unfortunately, I think this statement is true in many ways. For example, the processes of the industries we purchase from lack transparency, so that we don’t always have all of the information and background we need to ensure that our decisions are positively affecting the globe. However, I believe that whether or not we can control the outcomes of all of our decisions, we are still responsible for each one that we make.
So I choose not to live by the adage of “ignorance is bliss,” but to research and educate myself so that, to the best of my ability, even my smallest decisions will be informed and positively impact the world. I have included a small collection of resources that have impacted me and my decision making for each of my three values. Each of these resources is, in itself, incomplete and only a part of ongoing conversations about very complex topics.
I leave you with these words…
“Be careful. You will be haunted by what you find…, and you won’t be able to wash away what you’ve seen and heard. You will see things and hear things, and then you will be responsible for them, for telling the truth about who you are and who you discover you are not, and for finding a way to make it right.” (“Broken Bottles,” Cold Tangerines, Shauna Niequist)
THE LIVES OF OTHERS // ETHICAL SHOPPING
- “Strength and Dignity Are Her Clothing: Making Ethical Fashion Choices”
- The True Cost
- “The Myth of Ethical Shopping”
- “So You Say You’re an Ethical Shopper”
- “Small Wins and Why We Shouldn’t Stop”
- “How to Shop More Ethically”
- “A Guide to Curating a Conscious Closet”
THE ENVIRONMENT & ITS INHABITANTS// SUSTAINABILITY & ANIMAL ETHICS
MYSELF // PHYSICAL HEALTH
Last year, my word for the year was give, and I made it a priority to seek opportunities to give my time, energy, and love to others. And I realized that the more I shifted my focus to others, the less I focused on myself. For this reason, as I continue to challenge myself to give continually in 2016, I also want to minimize.
I have embraced the philosophy of minimalism in many areas of my life already – my purchases, my wardrobe, my style. Throughout this process, I discovered how much consumerism and self-centeredness had infiltrated my life, and I have been very humbled.
This year, I will continue to pursue minimalism in my possessions, but more importantly, I will seek to minimize myself so that I may become more like Jesus, and so that God may use me as a vessel to serve others and improve the world around me.
What is your word for 2016?
MY WORDS FOR PREVIOUS YEARS
In times of chaos and violence, may we “pursue the things which make for peace” (Romans 14:19). May we make sacrifices, choose compassion, and love wholeheartedly.
In times when everyone seems to be an “extremist” of one sort or another, may we remember the wise words of Martin Luther King Jr. in his “Letter from Birmingham Jail”…
“So the question is not whether we will be extremists, but what kind of extremists we will be. Will we be extremists for hate or for love? Will we be extremists for the preservation of injustice or for the extension of justice?”
In times of hatred and disagreement, may we be agents of peace in our own world – in our friendships, in our homes, in our words, in our thoughts, and in our hearts. May we become the peacemakers.
Thank you, Dr. Roberts, for the inspiration.
“There is something in the autumn that is native to my blood
Touch of manner, hint of mood
And my heart is like a rhyme
With the yellow and the purple and the crimson keeping time…
There is something in October sets the gypsy blood astir;
We must rise and follow her,
When from every hill of flame
She calls and calls each vagabond by name.”
//Bliss Carman, “A Vagabond Song”
How can you teach someone to be moved by literature?
How can you teach the feeling of transcending time and space as you echo the words Thoreau wrote in a cabin in the woods over one hundred years ago?
“Simplify, simplify, simplify…”
How can you teach the power of words?
How can you teach someone to hear the symphony of poets, bearing their souls in just a few lines?
“Surrounded, detached, in measureless oceans of space,
Ceaselessly musing, venturing, throwing, seeking…”
How can you teach the experience of reliving history and wondering what could have been, had the answers to the questions changed?
“Is life so dear, or peace so sweet, as to be purchased at the price of chains and slavery?”
How can you teach someone the value of the ideas they scribbled on a piece of lined paper and then abandoned, crumpled in the trash?
How can you teach someone to be fearful of mediocrity, when they don’t even know what “mediocrity” means?
How can you teach someone to want to work hard?
How can you teach that learning is a privilege?
How can you teach,
but by learning yourself?