I am so blessed to be surrounded by talented friends and family. This week, I was invited by my friends at Hartt Productions to share a little bit about my wedding day. It was perfect timing, since Tanner and I just celebrated our second anniversary. Hartt Productions is passionate about capturing weddings through film to make each special moment of the day timeless.
“We strive to make every couple feel as though their film is a representation of who they were the moment they completed their vows and there is no better medium to relive that version of yourself than through one of our films.” – Hartt Productions
Read my blog post here, and find out more about Hartt Productions and their work here!
I was honored to design a rehearsal dinner invitation to go along with the wedding invitations I shared recently here. The bride asked me to incorporate the ribbon from the RSVP postcard, as well as more floral details. They are very sweet and simple!
SEE MY OTHER WEDDING INVITATION DESIGNS HERE AND HERE.
CONTACT ME HERE IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN A CUSTOM INVITATION DESIGN.
In his book, Dr. Qureshi describes his upbringing in a devout Muslim family in America. He was raised to value integrity and peace, and he grew up learning how to defend his Muslim faith, particularly against Christianity. He was a high-achieving student in school, was a respectful and loving son, and passionately sought to serve Allah in all that he did. Throughout his adolescence, he was constantly seeking to share his faith with his peers and repeatedly engaged in discussions with Christians who had no answers to his criticisms of the Bible’s reliability, Jesus’ deity, and other issues of contention.
This pattern continued until Nabeel reached college and encountered the first Christian who was not rattled by questions and criticisms, but instead encouraged these questions and enjoyed discussing them. Over the next few years, Nabeel and David developed a strong relationship that motivated Nabeel to investigate his own faith in order to prove that Allah is the one true God and that Muhammad was his prophet. The more he researched, the more he discovered that many of his beliefs were formed on misconceptions or traditions that lacked historical evidence. And as he studied, he began to find much more evidence pointing toward the deity of Jesus and the authenticity of the Bible.
The beauty of Dr. Qureshi’s story is that he depicts the intricate relationship between logic and faith. He refused to base his faith merely on emotion and tradition, but pursued evidence and facts to support his decision. However, even once he determined logically that Jesus is the son of God and that he was crucified to bring salvation to humanity, he resisted Christianity. He states, “I knew that accepting Jesus would be like dying and I would have to give up everything, because for Muslims, following the gospel is more than a call to prayer. It is a call to die.” Ultimately, he beseeched God to show him the truth and finally accepted Jesus after God proved himself in an undeniable way.
I loved reading this book to learn more about the Muslim faith, to become informed about controversial issues between Islam and Christianity, and to study historical evidence that confirms the truths of the Bible. Most importantly, I was inspired by a story of a passionate pursuit of God that led to a life of sacrifice and devotion that has impacted the lives of many, including my own.
“There is a movement bubbling up that goes beyond cynicism and celebrates a new way of living, a generation that stops complaining about the church it sees and becomes the church it dreams of.” //Shane Claiborne
I used to dislike New Year’s resolutions. I grew tired of seeing list after list of goals that people never accomplished, or didn’t even seem to care about two weeks later. While I am still wary of making unattainable goals, I now appreciate people who make bold resolutions. I admire their desire to improve and their courage to share their dreams even if they might fail.
However, I think that it is just as valuable to reflect on past growth as it is to create new goals. I was inspired by Erin from Design for Mankind to create my list of non-goals – a list of ways that I am learning to accept myself and areas that I have already grown in. (You can read Erin’s list here.)
1. I have learned not to take myself so seriously.
I have been a perfectionist for as long as I can remember. When I colored as a little girl, I was so upset with myself if I colored out of the lines. I would even ask my parents to finish coloring it for me, so that it would look better. Fortunately, they always made me finish, and encouraged me along the way.
Now, when creating and teaching 20 lesson plans a week, it is impossible for each one to be perfect. Rather than become frustrated with small setbacks, I have learned to laugh at my mistakes and even enjoy my imperfections at times.
2. I have simplified my life.
I have embraced minimalism in many areas of my life, and I am enjoying the benefits. Rather than fill my house and my schedule with clutter, I have learned to let things go and enjoy the small things in life.
3. I have valued the relationships that make my life meaningful.
Tanner and I are so grateful to live close to all of our parents, and we have taken advantage of it. I look forward to spending time with them each week, and I cherish all of the memories we are creating together. I have kept in touch with out-of-town family, reconnected with old friends, and started new friendships. I have also had the opportunity to work on a family history project with my dad that has not only taught me about my heritage, but has also inspired me to live a life that my family will be proud of for years to come.
4. I have explored and refined my beliefs.
There comes a time in life when you have to question the things you have been taught and the culture in which you have been raised. Even though this process is a lifelong journey in some ways, I am excited about the new perspectives I have been exposed to and the things I have learned about God and His love this year.
In what areas of your life are you satisfied? What accomplishments are you proud of? What are your non-goals?
My word for 2014 was follow, and throughout the year I learned the importance of pursuing God not only in the midst of change, but also when life remains constant.
This year, my word is give.
In the last meal Jesus shared with His disciples before he was killed, He said, “This is my body, which is for you; do this in remembrance of me.” (I Corinthians 11:23-24)
Christians typically interpret this verse to mean to eat bread and drink wine in remembrance of Jesus’s sacrifice. However, Jan Hatmaker provides further insight into Jesus’ words:
“Not only was Communion a symbolic ritual, it was a new prototype of discipleship. ‘Continuously make My sacrifice real by doing this very thing.’ Become broken and poured out for hopeless people. Become a living offering, denying yourself for the salvation and restoration of humanity. Obedience to Jesus’ command is more than looking backward; it’s a present and continuous replication of His sacrifice.” (Interrupted)
Jesus gave the ultimate sacrifice not only in His death, but throughout His entire life filled with generosity and unconditional love. My goal this year is to replicate His sacrifice as much as possible in my own life, through giving my time, giving my love, giving my energy, and giving all that I have, regardless of the sacrifice. And my desire is that through my life of giving, others might be able to receive a glimpse of God’s unfailing love and amazing sacrifice.